At my wits end - Page 3

Ravinder · 14th June 2016, 18:25

Well done. Sorry to hear of the situation but hopefully things are on the right path now.

Darcydog · 14th June 2016, 18:29

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Originally Posted by FLYER

Number one keep all doors and windows locked .

If he has a key change locks .

You MUST inform your local police whats happened .

You must take legal advice .

That apart if he turns up phone the cops AT ONCE .

Stay safe Anna.

That is good advice Anna

Try to get some hidden cameras to record the abuse - then you have a chance of getting the Police to do something. But take care - the last thing yo want to do is to aggravate the situation.

Edit - well done looks like you moved things by your agenda - not his! Well done.

macafee2 · 14th June 2016, 19:25

hope all works out for you, people here have given sound advice and you have done the right thing.

macafee2

Jay · 14th June 2016, 19:26

You live in the 'life of the brave' in Scotland, and it says it all.
Well done Anna

kbonney88 · 14th June 2016, 19:36

Fingers crossed he realises what's really what whilst he is in there.. And he doesnt revert to his normal self when he gets released.
You did the right thing Anna, well done.. you had to do it sooner or later, you know that.. X

barney bear · 14th June 2016, 19:46

Well done for finding the courage to go to the Police Anna, hopefully this will put him on a short leash when he is released.

FLYER · 14th June 2016, 20:10

Wont lie to you Anna tough times are ahead.

I have been where you are twice and its not easy .

You have to involve outside parties and thats never easy.

You have the added complication of children that he has the right to see .

However his behaviour leaves him open to restrictions.

What you MUST NOT DO is ever trust him again and NEVER EVER let him back into your life .

I dont know him but from what you have said here he sounds a bad lot .

Your commitment to your children is the most important thing .

Let nothing pass with regard to breaking any rules laid down.

Good luck lady .

Its a long road .

murphyv310 · 14th June 2016, 20:25

Good stuff Anna.
I'm glad you went to the police and made a statement. Now you will need as much support as possible from friends and family to help you through what can be a difficult time.
I sincerely hope you can make it on Saturday, there are a lot of people rooting for you and I hope we can keep you cheered up and away from morbid thoughts.
As I have said my daughter has been through the mill, she though came through it eventually and has no hassle any longer.
Anne too had a very unhappy first marriage with a very much controlling husband, boy has the tide turned for him!
I'll give you a big hug on Saturday along with the rest of us

Graham1961 · 17th June 2016, 16:23

Call the police Anna and tell them everything.

FLYER · 17th June 2016, 16:53

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Originally Posted by GRAHAM1961

Call the police Anna and tell them everything.

If you read back big G she has .

14th June 2016, 19:26	#24
Jay This is my second home Small....Far away Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Norwich Posts: 9,473 Thanks: 2,707 Thanked 2,060 Times in 1,194 Posts	You live in the 'life of the brave' in Scotland, and it says it all. Well done Anna __________________ ~Karma will help or hinder you. Therefore look positive for this day~

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murphyv310 This is my second home Hyundai i10 998cc Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Kilmarnock Posts: 6,602 Thanks: 2,088 Thanked 2,298 Times in 1,349 Posts	Good stuff Anna. I'm glad you went to the police and made a statement. Now you will need as much support as possible from friends and family to help you through what can be a difficult time. I sincerely hope you can make it on Saturday, there are a lot of people rooting for you and I hope we can keep you cheered up and away from morbid thoughts. As I have said my daughter has been through the mill, she though came through it eventually and has no hassle any longer. Anne too had a very unhappy first marriage with a very much controlling husband, boy has the tide turned for him! I'll give you a big hug on Saturday along with the rest of us __________________ Cheers from Trevor MM0KJJ

17th June 2016, 16:23	#29
Graham1961 Moderator / RS East Scotland Rover 75 1.8 Conn Se saloon Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: North Berwick, East Lothian Posts: 4,738 Thanks: 4,143 Thanked 753 Times in 563 Posts	Call the police Anna and tell them everything. __________________ Graham.

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kbonney88 I really should get out more....... Rover 75 Tourer & 75 Saloons Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Perth/Glasgow Scotland Posts: 2,313 Thanks: 804 Thanked 656 Times in 512 Posts	Fingers crossed he realises what's really what whilst he is in there.. And he doesnt revert to his normal self when he gets released. You did the right thing Anna, well done.. you had to do it sooner or later, you know that.. X

14th June 2016, 20:10	#27
FLYER Banned rover75 cdti AUTO TOURER 160 bhp. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Glasgow Posts: 35,346 Thanks: 2,985 Thanked 3,685 Times in 2,463 Posts	Wont lie to you Anna tough times are ahead. I have been where you are twice and its not easy . You have to involve outside parties and thats never easy. You have the added complication of children that he has the right to see . However his behaviour leaves him open to restrictions. What you MUST NOT DO is ever trust him again and NEVER EVER let him back into your life . I dont know him but from what you have said here he sounds a bad lot . Your commitment to your children is the most important thing . Let nothing pass with regard to breaking any rules laid down. Good luck lady . Its a long road .