I'd like to say thanks for all the answers, but the button has disappeared... don't know if it's a site problem...
Anyway yes, I agree and am "happy" to spend money on the car if it carries on transporting me - my objections are more around it frequently breaking down and leaving me stranded... anyway, got my selector cables ordered, but probably won't have them fitted this side of Easter now.
After that, maybe it'll keep on for another while