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Old 19th October 2019, 22:17   #148916
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Evening all, not been posting much lately, been back and forward to hospitals visiting my sick aunt. Things aren't looking particularly bright for her atm. She received the diagnosis we had all been dreading last week, and they can't operate.why? I don't know and neither does she.Waiting to hear from the specialists at another hospital atm, see what the plan B is, if there is one.She had the fluid drained last week, and was able to eat almost normally for a couple of days, but it has built up again, and she is unable to eat anything other than a couple of mouthfuls.
Saw her tonight, and although sitting in a chair and being chatty, rather than being in bed, is very fed up. She just says if only she could eat and drink normally, she could cope better.
She is 82, and up until about 8 weeks ago, a very fit active, and sprightly 82, who you wouldn't;t take to be a day over 70.
A heathy eater, only an occasional drinker, always looked after herself, took loads of vitamins and supplements, for what? It boils my .... to think of those who abuse their bodies with alcohol, tobacco and drugs, yet they live a long and problem free life, and the innocent are the ones that get struck down. I know that is not the case all the time, and not saying that those who abuse their bodies should be punished , but they are the ones who chose to take the substances, knowing fine well the risks involved in doing so.
I shall probably be absent from the zone for a bit, apart from a morning and evening visit.
I am worn out trying to work, lead my life and visit each night.
News came today that nothing more can be done and she is to move to a hospice for palliative care. We knew this would come but not as soon.

Don’t know where to put myself atm.
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